The affair site
But before that awakening occurred, she suffered, and she still had to deal with the reality of her marriage and how to heal her own trauma. Can you call it an affair if the "lovers" don't have sex? They became very close, working together on a volunteer project.
Eventually, she realized that beneath her anger was a desire for a man who would really recognize her, who could "see" her, as her father never did.
But she couldn't create a solution, nor figure out how to deal with her desire for revenge.