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Personally, I would encourage trans people to be up front simply for their own safety, but I don’t see why they should have to wear that info like a banner any more than someone in a wheelchair should have to put that front and center on their dating profile.Last counterpoint is, why should a trans person have to put that they are trans on their profile rather than you putting on yours that you don’t date trans people? Gender is a pretty big deal, the genders you're interested in are typically one of the first questions a dating site asks you.I agree that it would be excessive to try and account for every physical & mental variation and account for them, but the fact that we don't need to account for doesn't mean we should account for nothing.By that logic, we should have no filters at all - and you should just see everyone with no filters at all, which would be a miserable user experience no one would use.You might even argue that they are major factors for MOST people. My point is: there are loads of factors that someone might consider “major” when it comes to date-ability.And yet, why should we allow filters for one thing and not another? What is a dealbreaker for you might not be a dealbreaker for someone else.At this point if you can’t tell they’re trans, find them attractive, and that becomes the dealbreaker, it’s not their problem.It’s just you have to realize that becomes your problem and you can just ignore them.
It seems like it would hurt a lot of trans people’s ability to date and not really effect yours.So: transgender men and women should have their own separate designations from men and women on dating sites. EDIT: As a clarification, because I seem to have given the impression that I'm somehow obscuring a lack of interest in same-sex relationships, I do not want to sleep with a biological man - which is one more reason for the filter./u/The_Josh_Of_Clubs (OP) has awarded 3 delta(s) in this post.All comments that earned deltas (from OP or other users) are listed here, in r/Delta Log.That differs by person, so where do we draw the line feasibly?